Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between | Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between |

Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between | Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between |

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| Serving all relationships • dating • married • verge of divorce • engaged • polycules • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between

You used to laugh more. 
Now every talk turns tense, looping in circles until you are exhausted. No matter you’re relationship dynamic it shouldn’t feel this hard.

Do any of these feel familiar?

Nothing in common anymore

Sex Isn't Happening

Feeling like roommates

feeling misunderstood

 wondering “Why are we together?” 

I want the arguments
to stop

they want more sex then me

feeling Judged about your relationship

same fight.
different day.

feeling pressured to have sex

i do not feel heard

it is always
a debate

i am tired of
trying first

we act like we are just friends

If every fight feels like déjà vu, you’re caught in a loop replaying the same story. For queer and straight couples alike, that loop can leave you feeling disconnected, defensive, and unseen.

Using the science-backed Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you spot what’s really going on underneath and break the cycle for good.

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Licensed in Ohio, Florida, Oregon and New Jersey

I’m Sarah Newcomer, your relationship specialist. As an Independent Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist I work with relationships of all kinds that feel stuck on repeat. I focus exclusively on relationships, and have built my practice to focus on them. 

I help partners break out of old cycles, rebuild connection, and actually understand each other again. My work blends science-backed approaches like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with humor, empathy, and real conversations about what makes relationships thrive.

Whether you’re monogamous, poly, kinky, or neurodiverse, my work is focused on helping make connection that lasts.

Sex Therapy

Worried your relationship might not make it? With research-backed approaches like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, we’ll work together to rebuild trust, deepen understanding, and help you both feel heard again

Couples Therapy

MARRIAGE ISSUES

Polyam and Open 
Relationships

intensives

Polyam and Open Relationships

Couples therapy

You want a therapist who gets that love doesn’t always fit in a box. Whether your relationship is poly, open, or still finding its shape, you deserve a space that celebrates that. With professional training and personal understanding of nonmonogamous relationships, I help partners navigate connection, communication, and care without shame.

Polyam and Open Relationships

sex therapy

intensives

sex therapy

couples therapy

It’s not always just about sex, but sometimes, that’s where the tension shows up. Maybe every argument seems to circle back to intimacy, or the lack of it. As one of the few Marriage & Family Therapists who’s also AASECT-Certified in Sex Therapy, I help couples unpack what’s really underneath those patterns and rebuild connection that feels safe, curious, and alive again

sex therapy

Polyam and Open Relationships

intensives

Intimacy Concerns

Marriage Issues

Sometimes waiting weeks between sessions isn’t enough. Intensives give you focused time to dive deep, moving through gridlock, rebuilding safety, and finding your way back to each other faster. 

Intensives: Fast-Track Support for Lifelong Connection

Polyam and Open Relationship Challenges

intensives

You’re ready to end the cycle, and have connection that lasts 

You’ve tried to hold it all together, but the same arguments keep circling back. It’s time to get some backup. You need someone who understands the emotional chaos, the communication loops, and the intimacy blocks that keep you spinning.

As an Independent Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, I’ll help you make sense of what’s happening and guide you toward calm, clarity, and connection that actually lasts.

Ready to see what change could look like? Book a consult call and let’s start figuring this out together.

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