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Serving couples • polyamourus • kinky • queer • neurodiverse | Serving couples • polyamourus • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse |

Serving couples • polyamourus • kinky • queer • neurodiverse | Serving couples • polyamourus • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse |

Serving couples • polyamourus • kinky • queer • neurodiverse | Serving couples • polyamourus • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse |

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When your relationship keeps slipping into the miscommunication that goes in circles and “here we go again” moments it can feel like too much and you are all alone.
 

So many overwhelmed, anxious, ADHD or neurodivergent couples end up stuck in patterns that repeat no matter how hard you try.

It turns into the same fights and the same worries looping on repeat...

Nothing in common anymore

Sex Isn't Happening

Feeling like roommates

feeling misunderstood and shut down

 wondering “Why are we together?” 

I want the arguments
to stop

they want more sex then me

"I am not trying to ignore you, I got distracted"

same fight.
different day.

feeling Overwhelmed in arguments

i do not feel heard

it is always
a debate

i am tired of
trying first

we act like we are just friends

If every fight feels the same and leaves you feeling unseen, you’re not alone. I am here to help and I am dedicated to understanding couples just like you.

I’m a Relationship Specialist who helps couples untangle overthinking, ease anxiety, and shift the patterns that keep repeating.

Using science-backed, personalized approaches, I help couples spot the loops, understand what’s really going on, and finally start changing the cycles that keep them stuck.

Let's get you unstuck

 Couples Therapy in Ohio, Florida, and New Jersey

I’m Sarah Newcomer - an Independent Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, and the owner of Relationship Reset Therapy.  I work exclusively with couples and partnerships, helping untangle overthinking, break old patterns, and rebuild closeness.

As someone with ADHD, anxiety, and a very analytical “science brain,” I understand how easy it is to get stuck in your head. If your thoughts move fast, your emotions run deep, and connection feels more complicated than it should, you’re not alone—I’ve lived that too.
That’s why my therapy is designed for couples who want clarity, calm, and a deeper understanding of each other.

My approach blends science-backed methods like the Gottman Method, Relational Life Therapy, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with empathy, humor, and "get to the bottom of this" conversations.

Hey!
It is Nice to meet you...

Sex Therapy

Using research-backed approaches, tailored to your relationship dynamics,  we’ll work together to rebuild trust, help you both understand each other, and feel heard again. 

Couples Therapy

Couples Therapy

Poly and Open 
Relationships

intensives

Poly and Open Relationships

Couples therapy

You want a therapist who gets that love doesn’t always fit in a box. Whether your relationship is poly, open, or still finding its shape, you deserve someone who can support you without shame or judgement.

Polyam and Open Relationships

sex therapy

intensives

sex therapy

couples therapy

It’s not always just about sex, but sometimes, that’s where the tension shows up. As one of the few Marriage & Family Therapists who’s also AASECT-Certified in Sex Therapy, I help couples unpack what’s really underneath those patterns.

Sex Therapy

Poly and Open Relationships

intensives

Intimacy Concerns

Marriage Issues

Sometimes waiting weeks between sessions isn’t enough. Intensives give you focused time to dive deep and heal faster. 

Intensives: Fast-Track Support 

Poly and Open Relationships

intensives

You’re ready to end the arguments, and reset connection that lasts 

You need someone who gets relationships. 

Ready to see what change could look like when you work with a relationship specialist? Book a consult call and let’s start figuring this out together.

Take the first step

Sarah Newcomer, Marriage and Family Therapist L.L.C © 2025