Ohio, Florida, New Jersey,
and Oregon
Online couples
therapy
Couples therapy for analytical brains, STEM professionals, and Neurodivergent relationships.
Nothing in common anymore
Sex Isn't Happening
Feeling like roommates
feeling misunderstood
wondering “Why are we together?”
I want the arguments
to stop
they want more sex then me
feeling
Misunderstood
same fight.
different day.
feeling pressured to have sex
i do not feel heard
it is always
a debate
i am tired of
trying first
we act like we are just friends
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I’m Sarah Newcomer, your relationship specialist and owner of SexOneFour. As an Independent Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist I work with relationships that feel stuck on repeat. I focus exclusively on relationships, and have built my practice to focus on them.
I help partners break out of old cycles, rebuild connection, and actually understand each other again. My work blends science-backed approaches like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with humor, empathy, and real conversations about what makes relationships thrive.
Whether you’re monogamous, poly, kinky, or neurodiverse, my work is focused on helping make connection that lasts.
Using research-backed approaches, tailored to your relationship dynamics, we’ll work together to rebuild trust, help you both understand each other, and feel heard again.
Couples Therapy
You want a therapist who gets that love doesn’t always fit in a box. Whether your relationship is poly, open, or still finding its shape, you deserve someone who can support you without shame or judgement.
Polyam and Open Relationships
It’s not always just about sex, but sometimes, that’s where the tension shows up. As one of the few Marriage & Family Therapists who’s also AASECT-Certified in Sex Therapy, I help couples unpack what’s really underneath those patterns.
Sex Therapy
Sometimes waiting weeks between sessions isn’t enough. Intensives give you focused time to dive deep and heal faster.
Intensives: Fast-Track Support
You need someone who gets relationships.
Ready to see what change could look like when you work with a relationship specialist? Book a consult call and let’s start figuring this out together.
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