Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between | Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between |

Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between | Serving couples • throuples • poly • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between |

| Serving all relationships • dating • married • verge of divorce • engaged • polycules • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between | Serving all relationships • dating • married • verge of divorce • engaged • polycules • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between

| Serving all relationships • dating • married • verge of divorce • engaged • polycules • open • kinky • queer • neurodiverse • and every relationship in between

When every talk turns into
The Same Fight
talking faster, shutting down, over-explaining, losing each other

  it’s EXHAUSTING.




You might even feel like your relationship problems are on a loop 


Nothing in common anymore

Sex Isn't Happening

Feeling like roommates

feeling misunderstood

 wondering “Why are we together?” 

I want the arguments
to stop

they want more sex then me

feeling
Misunderstood

same fight.
different day.

feeling pressured to have sex

i do not feel heard

it is always
a debate

i am tired of
trying first

we act like we are just friends

If every fight feels like Ground Hog Day, it can leave you feeling disconnected and unseen.

This is where I can help. As a Relationship Specialist, I understand relationship dynamics and work exclusively with couples and relationships.

Using Science-Backed tailored to you approaches I can help you see what’s  going on underneath and break the cycle for good.

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Online Couples Therapy in Ohio, Florida, Oregon and New Jersey

I’m Sarah Newcomer, your relationship specialist and owner of SexOneFour. As an Independent Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist I work with relationships that feel stuck on repeat. I focus exclusively on relationships, and have built my practice to focus on them. 

I help partners break out of old cycles, rebuild connection, and actually understand each other again. My work blends science-backed approaches like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with humor, empathy, and real conversations about what makes relationships thrive.

Whether you’re monogamous, poly, kinky, or neurodiverse, my work is focused on helping make connection that lasts.

Sex Therapy

Using research-backed approaches, tailored to your relationship dynamics,  we’ll work together to rebuild trust, help you both understand each other, and feel heard again. 

Couples Therapy

Couples Therapy

Poly and Open 
Relationships

intensives

Poly and Open Relationships

Couples therapy

You want a therapist who gets that love doesn’t always fit in a box. Whether your relationship is poly, open, or still finding its shape, you deserve someone who can support you without shame or judgement.

Polyam and Open Relationships

sex therapy

intensives

sex therapy

couples therapy

It’s not always just about sex, but sometimes, that’s where the tension shows up. As one of the few Marriage & Family Therapists who’s also AASECT-Certified in Sex Therapy, I help couples unpack what’s really underneath those patterns.

Sex Therapy

Poly and Open Relationships

intensives

Intimacy Concerns

Marriage Issues

Sometimes waiting weeks between sessions isn’t enough. Intensives give you focused time to dive deep and heal faster. 

Intensives: Fast-Track Support 

Poly and Open Relationships

intensives

You’re ready to end the arguments, and reset connection that lasts 

You need someone who gets relationships. 

Ready to see what change could look like when you work with a relationship specialist? Book a consult call and let’s start figuring this out together.

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