Feeling disconnected is tough, but the journey back to love starts with a therapist who truly understands couples like you and utilizes proven methods to guide you back to that place of love and connection
Your partner is keen on exploring their queer identity, and you want to ensure that your relationship remains valued and meaningful
The polycule is struggling with communication and you want everyone to come to the table together
You're both intrigued by the idea of possibly opening your relationship and are seeking healthy ways to explore new paths together.
I combine The Gottman Method to help with skills and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy for understanding attachment patterns. Whether it's ENM or monogamous couples, my approach is pretty similar—just more folks involved in the relationship. I take all partnerships through a structured process of interviews (Both together and individually) to dig into your history and spot those patterns, along with a detailed relationship assessment.
Considering opening up your relationship but feeling uncertain about how to navigate it? Working together I'll assist in those initial discussions, starting from an attachment theory perspective. Are you leaning towards Relationship Anarchy? Perhaps a close-knit Kitchen Table Polycule? Or maybe something entirely different? It's YOUR relationship, and we'll shape it based on your preferences.
You'll pick up some solid relationship skills and get to understand each other better. We'll dig into the dynamics between you and your partner(s) to build a vibe of empathy and deep understanding together.
no fear of judgement: In this space, there's no room for shaming or therapists steering you toward monogamy based on their biases. I embrace diverse interests—whether it's being kinky, furry, or exploring power dynamics, it's all welcome here!
I've experienced firsthand the struggle of finding a therapist who truly understands. Being part of these communities has taught me the subtleties that textbooks and classes can't capture.
I've been an active member of the furry community since 2008. Through that journey, I discovered the kink and leather scenes and navigated my own path in open and poly relationships. Beyond my sex therapy certification, I've also pursued advanced studies in consensual non-monogamy and polyamory. So, it's not just about theory—I truly understand what it's like to be in your shoes.
People in open relationships often seek therapy to tackle various things: setting boundaries, handling parenting issues, dealing with jealousy, practicing safe sex, improving communication, and navigating feelings of insecurity.
Sarah Newcomer, Marriage and Family Therapist L.L.C © 2024