SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN

SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN

I’m not here to just smile and nod...
I’m here to help you actually change what’s not working.

Sure, I could talk about all my trainings (they’re right below if you’re curious), but here’s the truth: I have dedicated my entire practice to working with couples.. My style is laid, back but direct, we’ll have real conversations that actually matter. And yeah, sometimes a well-placed curse word says what nothing else can. It’s not about shock value; it’s about being honest, human, and real.

I am not afraid to go deeper...

I’ll ask the kind of questions that help us go deeper into what’s really happening, things like:

What’s it like for you when the argument starts?
What happens inside you when they walk away?


I’ll reflect back to be sure I’m getting it right, because you’re the expert on your story.


I use real, science-backed approaches of Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method to help you actually get out of the loop and find your way back to connection. The process is structured using a research based assessment process, but also flexible to fit you. This is what I do all day, every day. Relationships are my thing, and helping couples find their way back to each other is what I’m best at.

I do not just have specialized training in the areas i treat, I am an Active member of the communities i support  

 I know first hand how hard it is to find a therapist "who gets it". I have lived experience in the polyamory, queer, and furry communities. I want my clients to know that I am understanding and knowledgeable about things they love that other folks may not understand beyond book learning.

i can help

licensed in:

CERTIFICATIONS

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist 


AAMFT Clinical Fellow


Over 100 hours of training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy,
Including focused training in working with high escalation, trauma, and affair recovery.

Specialized training in the
Gottman Method

Member of International Center of Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy

Obtained specialized training in the dynamics of Consensual Non-Monogamy (along with lived experience within the community).

CERTIFICATIONS

licensed in:

Licensed in 4 states: 

Ohio - Independent Marriage and Family Therapist, #F.2000131, State of Ohio Counselor, Social Worker, and Marriage & Family Therapist Board​​

Florida - Independent Marriage and Family Therapist Florida Telehealth Provider, #TPMF171, Florida Board of Clinical Social Work, Marriage and Family Therapy, and Mental Health Counseling

New Jersey - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #37F100216200, New Jersey Office of the Attorney General Division of Consumer Affairs

Oregon - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #T2560, Oregon Board of Licensed Professional Counselors and Therapist

Want to know more about me? these are not just fun facts, they are things that shape how I show up in the therapy room:

NEUROSPICY: My ADHD brain is built for curiosity and catching patterns most people overlook.

Research Nerd: I love digging into the “why” behind what couples do, therapy that’s human and backed by solid science.

FURRY: Yep, I’m a furry. It’s about creativity, connection, and finding your people, which is pretty much how I do therapy, too.

FAVORITE TV THERAPIST: Dr. Linda Martin from Lucifer, equal parts compassion, straight talk, and “did-we-just-go-there?” honesty. My style’s not far off.

Seen on BBC News & Reuters

Reconnecting With Your Relationship And Understanding Those Patterns Is Within Reach

LET’S GET YOU UNSTUCK

Sarah Newcomer, Marriage and Family Therapist L.L.C © 2025