SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN

SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN

I am not a "bobble head" just nod & smile therapist...
Authenticity, directness, honesty, and the occasional curse word—that's what you'll find here.


Here's the deal: I don't believe in sugarcoating or beating around the bush. I embrace a laid-back atmosphere where we can have honest conversations that get to the heart of the matter. And yes, that means I may drop a few colorful words along the way. I understand that sometimes a well-placed curse word can capture the depth of your emotions like nothing else.

I am not afraid to go deeper...

I will ask things that take a deeper look into your situation, your experiences and thoughts like:

What is your experience when you argue?
What happens in you when they walk away?

I will reflect back to make sure I understand, because YOU'RE the expert.

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 I use real science backed approaches like Emotion Focused therapy as well as Gottman method in a structured and focused process to help you get back on the path to connection. Getting unstuck looks different for everyone, but this is where I can help with my training and expertise. Relationships are my passion and my entire practice is dedicated to couples and relationships.

I do not just have specialized training in the areas i treat, I am an Active member of the communities i support  

 I know first hand how hard it is to find a therapist "who gets it". I have lived experience in the polyamory, queer, and furry communities. I want my clients to know that I am understanding and knowledgeable about things they love that other folks may not understand beyond book learning.

i can help

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CERTIFICATIONS

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist 


AAMFT Clinical Fellow 


PhD Student in Clinical Sexology at the Modern Sex Therapy Institute 


Over 100 hours of training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Including focused training in working with high escalation, trauma, and affair recovery.


Member of International Center of Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy

Obtained specialized training in the dynamics of Consensual Non-Monogamy (along with lived experience within the community).

Check out this sneak peek behind the scenes! These tidbits aren’t just about me—they’re the things that influence how I do my job as a therapist:

NEUROSPICY ADHDer: I am empathetic, compassionate, while also being supportive and nurturing.

ENNEAGRAM TYPE 2: I am direct, can multitask, pivot quickly, and harness the superpower of hyperfocus

FURRY AND QUEER: I am open-minded and accepting of all lifestyles and experiences

FAVORITE TV THERAPIST: Dr. Linda Martin - Lucifer. I love her directness and ability to see the positive in every demon.

Seen on BBC News & Reuters

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