SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN

SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN

I’m not here to just smile and nod...
I’m here to help you actually change what’s not working.

I am laid, back but direct, we’ll have real conversations that actually matter and help you move forward. 

I have dedicated my entire practice to working with couples and I know sitting in silence does not help you change.

I am not afraid to tell you what I see..

I’ll notice patterns, the ones that keep you stuck, and name them in real time, with care and clarity.

Sometimes that means hearing things that sting a little before they help. But that’s where change starts: in the truth, not the comfort zone.
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I have dedicated my practice to helping couples find their way back to each other is what I’m best at. I use real, science-backed approaches of Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method to help you actually get out of the loop. 

I do not just have specialized training in the areas i treat, I am an Active member of the communities i support  

 I know first hand how hard it is to find a therapist "who gets it". I have lived experience in the polyamory, queer, and furry communities.

i get it

licensed in:

Specializations

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist 

AAMFT Clinical Fellow

Trained in Gottman Method and is a Gottman Relationship Checkup Provider

Over 100 hours of training in Emotionally Focused Therapy. 
Completed the Externship, Core Skills, EFT with Sexual Dynamics, High Escalation and Supervision 

Specialized training in the dynamics of Consensual Non-Monogamy 


Specialized training in Kink/BDSM Dynamics

CERTIFICATIONS

licensed in:

Licensed in 4 states: 

Ohio - Independent Marriage and Family Therapist, #F.2000131, State of Ohio Counselor, Social Worker, and Marriage & Family Therapist Board​​

Florida - Independent Marriage and Family Therapist Florida Telehealth Provider, #TPMF171, Florida Board of Clinical Social Work, Marriage and Family Therapy, and Mental Health Counseling

New Jersey - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #37F100216200, New Jersey Office of the Attorney General Division of Consumer Affairs

Oregon - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #T2560, Oregon Board of Licensed Professional Counselors and Therapists 

It isn't just my training! my lived experiences  help shape how I show up in the therapy room:

Neurodiverse: I live with ADHD and I understand the complexities of Neurodivergent relationships.

Inclusive, Affirming, and Nontraditional: I am queer and involved in the furry fandom, you do not need to justify or explain your relationship.

Former Dolphin Trainer: Animals have taught me more about the power of relationships then any text book. Ask me about April the Kangaroo! 

My interview at midwest furfest 2023 Seen on BBC News & Reuters

Humorous and Human: I am not afraid of a curse word. I am far from stuffy. I will speak your language.

Direct: I am an active therapist and very direct in what I am seeing. 

Reconnecting With Your Relationship And Understanding Those Patterns Is Within Reach

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