COUPLES THERAPY Newark, OHIO
In-Person in Newark, OH
& online across
Oh, NJ, FL
Radically Different
couple & Sex therapy
Helping relationships go deeper, cut through patterns, and stop going in circles
You’ve read the books.
Listened to the podcasts.
Maybe you have even couples therapy and all the advice the therapist suggested.
And somehow… you’re still having the same fight.
New words, but the same pattern and spiral.
You’re stuck in a loop no one taught you how to break.
That little voice saying your relationship is “too complicated”?
It’s lying.
Most couples therapy wasn’t built for relationships like yours, neurodiverse brains, intense cycles, open relationships, or just feeling "in your head".
You get the “do date nights” advice…
but never the part that actually matters.
These are the loops running your relationship.
Open/ENM dynamics creating constant comparison
Always arguing about sex
Feeling like roommates
Feeling ignored but can’t pinpoint why
Fear of saying the wrong thing keeps you quiet
The “why can’t we just understand each other?” spiral
Shutdowns that feel like disconnection
Avoiding intimacy to prevent conflict
Little things
become BIG
things
feeling Overwhelmed in arguments
not feeling heard or understood
it is always
a debate
i am tired of
trying first
we act like we are just friends
Most couples therapy talks about communication skills.
That’s helpful… until it isn’t.
If your nervous system is hijacked,
if old wounds are still raw,
or desire doesn’t line up,
“just talk it out” won’t get you anywhere.
Here, neither one of you is the problem.
I see it as your relationship against the pattern.
I know that those patterns can be found, understood, and changed.
I look at the loops actually running your relationship:
The shutdowns,
The pursuit,
The sexual disconnect,
The same arguments that leave you both drained.
Together we map them, understand what’s really happening, and build something different.
This is therapy for relationships that are complicated, messy, intense, and worth it.
Expect direct conversations, a little humor, maybe a curse word or two, and guidance on how to break the cycle and show up differently and do something that actually works.
Schedule your
Free 15-min Video Consult
Sex Therapy
Using real research and relationship know-how, we rebuild trust, untangle the loops, and help you actually understand each other again.
Couples Therapy
Couples Therapy
Poly and ENM/CNM
Relationships
Extended Sessions
Poly and ENM/CNM Relationships
Couples therapy
Relationships are messy no matter the setup. Poly, partnered, or figuring it out, you deserve support without judgment and someone who "gets it".
Poly and ENM/CNM Relationships
sex therapy
Extended Sessions
sex therapy
couples therapy
It’s not always about sex… but when it is, it’s a clue. I help couples uncover what’s really going on and why the same loops keep showing up.
Sex Therapy
Poly and ENM/CNM Relationships
EXtended Sessions
Intimacy Concerns
Marriage Issues
Sometimes waiting weeks between sessions isn’t enough. Longer sessions give you focused time to dive deep and heal faster.
Feel better
Sooner
Poly and ENM/CNM Relationships
Extended Sessions
Sex Therapy in Newark, Ohio
I’m Sarah Newcomer, an IMFT, Certified Sex Therapist, and the Relationship Specialist behind Relationship Reset Therapy. I work exclusively with couples and CNM/ENM partnerships to untangle stuck patterns and actually rebuild closeness.
I’ve got ADHD, anxiety, and a highly analytical brain, so I get how relationships can get messy, mentally, emotionally, and yes, sometimes sexually. Adulting, shifting agreements, endless communication… it can feel like too much. I’ve been there.
My approach is a blend of Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy(EFT). EFT is based in attachment theory and is a science-backed method, considered the "gold standard" working with couples. I blend empathy, humor, and real talk in my sessions. No endless spirals, no turning every fight into a negotiation, or generic "do date nights". Just clarity, regulation, and working towards connection that actually lasts.
Hey friend,
Let's talk about love...
You’re ready to end the Pattern, and reset connection that lasts
Get the help you deserve.
Ready to see what change could look like when you work with a relationship specialist? Book a consult call and let’s start figuring this out together.
Take the first step
Sarah Newcomer, Marriage and Family Therapist L.L.C © 2025
